In a recent post about payday loans , reader Paul had the following (lightly edited) comment: “You know I used to feel sorry for people who get caught up in this money cycle. But when most people would rather just watch Dancing with the Stars or an insane reality program and not spend 30 seconds on improving any aspect of their financial lives, I just can’t. “One’s financial problems seem to always be ‘someone else’s or some fat cat banker’s fault.’ No one is responsible for themselves anymore. For the poor who struggle to make ends meet and this is the only option, yes I agree that is bad; for the rest, you get what you deserve if you can't pay for that non-essential ‘toy’ or latest iPhone you purchased you just had to have.” There definitely are many people who deserve Paul’s criticism. But many who get caught up in a vicious payday loan cycle had plenty of help getting there. When I’m asked to referee a dispute, I like to say that we shouldn’t overlook the possibility t...